Previously having two birthdays a year was reserved for the likes of the Monarchy. Just imagine, two parties, two birthday cakes and if you are lucky two sets of presents.
Queen Elizabeth
celebrates her official birthday this year on the 12th June being
the 2nd Monday of the month and a public holiday. It’s an
opportunity to have a long weekend spending time with family.
Nowadays having two
birthdays is becoming a popular occurrence given the increasing number of
separated families with each parent wanting to enjoy and make the most of
theirs and their child’s special day. Celebrating twice is not only reserved
for birthdays but also other special family occasions such as Christmas,
mother’s day, father’s day and Easter.
Often negotiating arrangements
for children to spend time with both parents can become problematic and lead to
upset, anger and frustration. What is of primary importance though is for children,
regardless of their parents differences to still spend time with both of their
parents at special times however that can be facilitated.
Choosing to adopt a collaborative
approach to discuss arrangements for your children following a separation will
prevent such difficult and upsetting conversations and help you focus on what
is important for your children.
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